Law of attraction
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How to Use The Law of Attraction

I’m sure you heard about the Law of Attraction before, and maybe you have an idea about what it should be. The definition tells that is the ability to attract the things you think about.

The Law works regardless of gender, age, nationality, religious beliefs, color or any other criteria you can think about. The Universe and its laws are the same for everyone, and there’s more good news for you: the Universe always does what you say. That is a powerful tool, but it is also dangerous. The idea is to keep your mind on what you want to happen rather than what you don’t want to happen.

To give you a simple example, that you may have heard about, the actor Jim Carrey wrote himself a check for 10 million dollars for acting services, and gave himself 5 years to do it. Right before those 5 years was about to end, he found out, he will make 10 million dollars after the movie “Dumb and Dumber”.

You can use the Law of Attraction in every aspect of your life: this law can attract wealth, health, family, love, professional career, everything you can think of.

How does the law of attraction work ?

The experts say it works on quantum physics principles and the scientist back that up with facts. You don’t need to understand quantum physics, I can barely spell “quantum physics” to be honest, but I know that every thought you have works on a certain frequency and attracts the same frequency as his own. That means you attract what you often think about!

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Now, the way I use the Law, and how I saw many people explaining it works the best is this simple pattern: Believe-Visualize-Action. let’s break everyone of these three steps:


“He who says he can, and he who says he can’t, are both usually right!” – Confucius… I absolutely love this quote because this affirmation is the whole core of the Law of Attraction. You can do whatever you put your mind to. Believe to achieve, this is the only way, and it will never be the other way around.


“To bring anything into your life, imagine that it’s already there.” -Richard Bach. If you can’t see it with your mind’s eyes, you will not see it with your eyes either. Visualize what you desire, to feel what it’s like to already have it, only then you will be prepared for it, and be able to do the last step in attracting anything you want.

Action! “

God provides the winds, but man must raise the sails!”- St. Augustine. This literally means that the Universe will serve you everything you need to achieve what you want, but you will do the job. It gives you the lemons, but if you really want lemonade, better start squashing. I believe this is the absolute truth of our world; as long as you don’t put into work, you will achieve nothing. That is why this is the last and the most important step.

But the ride will not be that smooth. You will face some bumps along the way. Here are some tips to help you keep on track:

Be thankful for what you already have!

You must focus on what you want, but be thankful for what you have. Let’s say you want more money. If you tell yourself that you will be wealthy but get upset every time you see that cool winter coat that you can’t afford. You involuntarily think about the fact that you can’t afford it. Instead of doing that, be thankful because you have money to buy food, pay the bills, buy flowers for your wife. be thankful for what you have, and believe you can have more, and you’re on the right track to materialize your thoughts.

Smack those negative thoughts!

To explain what do I mean by that, let’s go back to our winter coat. Instead of telling yourself “this is too expensive… I will never have it!” tell yourself the opposite “this is not expensive, I am buying it soon!”. By doing so, your subconscious will find solutions to your problems, and will not give you more reasons you can’t have that winter coat.

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Make a plan of action!

Remember when I said to take action? Well, take planned action. Do a plan, write some big goals, then write small goals, then write steps to reach every one of them. Winter coat example: when you get home, calculate your earnings, your spending, see in what areas you waste money, maybe you buy too much junk food, maybe you buy too much alcohol, maybe you have a gym membership you don’t use and still pay for.

See what you can do to save some money to buy that coat, or even better, see what you can do to make more money! The choice is up to you; the Key is to make a simple plan and act accordingly.

Get rid of the fear of getting what you want!

That is a thing, I know, surprising. Let me tell you what do I mean by that. Let’s say you made a plan and act accordingly to buy that coat, but you have second thoughts: “What will my family say when i tell them how much I spend on it”, “What are my friends going to say when they hear how much I spend on it”… stuff like that.

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It is important to keep in mind that it is your life, and your wish, you made a plan, to buy that coat, and if you believe it, visualize it, and act, then you will have it. You just have to think about the positive things and tell yourself good affirmations like “My family will like my new coat.”, “my friends will love it too.” Keep in mind that everything you think will happen. That is why the Law is so powerful.

Now you know that the Universe will always do what you tell it to do, you know how to avoid the traps of your own mind, and you know how to use the Law of Attraction. You just have to act and a life full of happiness, wealth, and health is standing right in front of you.

If you want to enter more in depth of the mysteries of the Law of Attraction here are some books you can check out:

The Secret

Practical Law of Attraction: Align Yourself with the Manifesting Conditions and Successfully Attract Your Desires

Money, and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness


I'm Elena, mom of two kids. My vague aim for this blog is to bring my take on medical parent life or just normal life with the odd survival tip thrown in and useful stuff for parents. And also add a hint of humor, if I'm in the right mood.

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